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Feeling like being crazy of reading a very long, boring material served for the subject I'm studying my ass off, I decide to postpone it and write something. As you might know, writing is something like releasing the boredom through my fingertips, hope it helps me get back my aspiration now...
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Following the daily news, just to realize Hanoi is touching its very first signs of upcoming autumn. Wow, autumn! My most favorite season of a year in the past. However, after 3-year-plus, I have no idea how other seasons except summer are like in Vietnam? In my current mind, the last images of Hanoi autumn, winter and spring have all diluted and been effing, or they are just very vague remaining senses. All I still remember is that once the very first sign of autumn appears, people all feel good in hope of fleeing from the hot weather of summer. I guess Hanoians are all feeling very eager to see the falling leaves now. :)
Cold weather is always better than the hot, as I think. Apply into Love case, the scene of a couple walking together and the girl is nestling in her boyfriend to hide herself from the breezing cold wind, while holding hands to warm themselves up, is, unconsciously, my strongest impression of the intimacy of love :X. Since I love someone, I love the winter, too! Not the autumn anymore, even a scene of a couple walking together under falling leaves from the trees is quite beautiful, too. Autumn can bring lovers a pleasant and romantic feeling, while winter gives you more than that---a cognizance of protection. Holding my lover's cute hands to warm her up, twining her to feel the cold is being lessened, is what I think I'm truly meant to do, in the winter, to show my love. Peaceful!
Destined Love, also known as meant-to-be love is an interesting concept, due to some people's mindset. Idealistically, love is already set in one's life and when you find it, it is your destiny. Your fate. Apparently, people also believe that if a couple cannot meet in the previous karma, they will reunite in the next karma and become lovers (religioner's belief). Okay, it's just what I have read, doesn't belong to my own mindset at all. I just think there is no such things like destiny or fate exists. If there is destiny or fate, then human's life is obviously already determined, or set, so that nothing we can do to change it. No matter what. Ridiculous. If we're living the already-set-life, so why we bother trying to live well or to be responsible or else? If you are miserable or poor, then is it your destiny? Or you are just not lucky enough, or competent enough? You answer it!
My mindset: destiny or fate is what human creates, not what creates human! So yeah, you create your life and determine how it becomes. Anyway, even I don't believe about destiny or fate, there is an exception when talking about love. Love is uniquely different, theoretically and practically. It is not what a person can surely create and it stands beyond human's subjective wish. Love is simply a hazard itself. Unforeseeable. So that love is somehow half destiny, half fate. Still, the other half of love lies on your hands. You still have a certain power to decide whether you can find a love or not if you stand up and react, instead of keeping doing nothing but wishing.
If you feel you meet someone seems to be like-minded with you, don't miss that chance. Let him/her be close to you to discover more about the truth. But always keep in mind the hazard of love in order to avoid being grief-stricken once love's gone. Because love is somehow destined, nothing you can do then (if you have done your best already but nothing changes). Maybe the effing love is still not what is destined for you, so let it go and patiently wait for your real goal.
In my opinion, a destined love should last long, maybe lifetime. I feel tedious about such fragile, easily-vanishing relationship I have experienced so far, both loves and crushes. After such relationships, you will realize the value of love drops down in your eyes. Sometime I yearn for a long-term and trustable love that I can put my belief in. There was time when I was quite choosy, thought that as many girls appear in my life as better, so that I have many choices to decide who will best matches me. Now, I feel like I don't need many girls but only one. The last one, I hope...
Still be early to affirm whether I'm having a destined love or not, but as far as I believe, I can decide half of the success, or failure, of the love I am cherishing. So yeah, everything should be done now is to change it from a random hazard into a real love affair, by effort and enthusiasm. Are you with me, my destined love?
09:38 pm
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Following the daily news, just to realize Hanoi is touching its very first signs of upcoming autumn. Wow, autumn! My most favorite season of a year in the past. However, after 3-year-plus, I have no idea how other seasons except summer are like in Vietnam? In my current mind, the last images of Hanoi autumn, winter and spring have all diluted and been effing, or they are just very vague remaining senses. All I still remember is that once the very first sign of autumn appears, people all feel good in hope of fleeing from the hot weather of summer. I guess Hanoians are all feeling very eager to see the falling leaves now. :)
Cold weather is always better than the hot, as I think. Apply into Love case, the scene of a couple walking together and the girl is nestling in her boyfriend to hide herself from the breezing cold wind, while holding hands to warm themselves up, is, unconsciously, my strongest impression of the intimacy of love :X. Since I love someone, I love the winter, too! Not the autumn anymore, even a scene of a couple walking together under falling leaves from the trees is quite beautiful, too. Autumn can bring lovers a pleasant and romantic feeling, while winter gives you more than that---a cognizance of protection. Holding my lover's cute hands to warm her up, twining her to feel the cold is being lessened, is what I think I'm truly meant to do, in the winter, to show my love. Peaceful!
Destined Love, also known as meant-to-be love is an interesting concept, due to some people's mindset. Idealistically, love is already set in one's life and when you find it, it is your destiny. Your fate. Apparently, people also believe that if a couple cannot meet in the previous karma, they will reunite in the next karma and become lovers (religioner's belief). Okay, it's just what I have read, doesn't belong to my own mindset at all. I just think there is no such things like destiny or fate exists. If there is destiny or fate, then human's life is obviously already determined, or set, so that nothing we can do to change it. No matter what. Ridiculous. If we're living the already-set-life, so why we bother trying to live well or to be responsible or else? If you are miserable or poor, then is it your destiny? Or you are just not lucky enough, or competent enough? You answer it!
My mindset: destiny or fate is what human creates, not what creates human! So yeah, you create your life and determine how it becomes. Anyway, even I don't believe about destiny or fate, there is an exception when talking about love. Love is uniquely different, theoretically and practically. It is not what a person can surely create and it stands beyond human's subjective wish. Love is simply a hazard itself. Unforeseeable. So that love is somehow half destiny, half fate. Still, the other half of love lies on your hands. You still have a certain power to decide whether you can find a love or not if you stand up and react, instead of keeping doing nothing but wishing.
If you feel you meet someone seems to be like-minded with you, don't miss that chance. Let him/her be close to you to discover more about the truth. But always keep in mind the hazard of love in order to avoid being grief-stricken once love's gone. Because love is somehow destined, nothing you can do then (if you have done your best already but nothing changes). Maybe the effing love is still not what is destined for you, so let it go and patiently wait for your real goal.
In my opinion, a destined love should last long, maybe lifetime. I feel tedious about such fragile, easily-vanishing relationship I have experienced so far, both loves and crushes. After such relationships, you will realize the value of love drops down in your eyes. Sometime I yearn for a long-term and trustable love that I can put my belief in. There was time when I was quite choosy, thought that as many girls appear in my life as better, so that I have many choices to decide who will best matches me. Now, I feel like I don't need many girls but only one. The last one, I hope...
Still be early to affirm whether I'm having a destined love or not, but as far as I believe, I can decide half of the success, or failure, of the love I am cherishing. So yeah, everything should be done now is to change it from a random hazard into a real love affair, by effort and enthusiasm. Are you with me, my destined love?
09:38 pm
130909
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